10 Tips To Have a Long Lasting Relationship

"If you give up so easy when things go wrong in a relationship , maybe it wasn't love from the beginning . set a limit , so that your feelings don't overpower your mind."

 

Here are 10 Tips for Having a Long Lasting Success in Relationships

1. Celebrate the small stuff.
"It's not enough that your partner knows that you take pride in her or her accomplishments. You have to show it. Making a fuss over the small, good things that happen everyday can boost the health of your marriage."

2. Learn how to fight productively.
"The key to fighting productively is to recognize when a disagreement is going in the wrong direction and to take steps to calm things down and repair rifts."

3. Silence is not golden.
"By staying quiet and avoiding conflict when things bothered them, they had missed important opportunities to cultivate and grow their relationship."

4. Don't put negative thoughts into the universe.
"Men and women who had pondered thoughts of divorce in 1980 were nine times more likely to have gotten divorced by the end of the study."

5. Plan together.
"Couples who planned a baby's arrival or who were equally joyous at becoming parents were far more likely to maintain their marital happiness or even enjoy an increase after the baby was born."

6. Maintain a circle of friends and support.
"Strong friendships outside the marriage can take the pressure off your relationship, help you work things out away from your spouse, and ultimately protect your marriage from unnecessary stress and discord."

7. Overcompensate for mistakes.
"Do marriage math. Even when you make a mistake, tell yourself that you're going to do at least five positive things for your spouse to make up for it, and then do them. And don't wait until you bicker to turn on the charm. Nice gestures and comments go far in a marriage, they are easy to do, and they will help insulate your marriage from being damaged by the inevitable bad days."

8. Set the relationship bar high.
"Husbands and wives who hold their partners to a reasonably high standard have better relationship. If you expect a better, more satisfying relationship, you improve your chances of having one."

9. Give it a break.
"Sometimes, improving your relationship means giving it a break. Increasing your connections with family, friends and society is good for both of you."

10. Be aware of your body language.
"Eye rolling is a painfully obvious sign of contempt, and it's a powerful predictor that your relationship is in serious trouble."

 

A Silent Love

Have you ever been silently in love

With someone you can never have?

So close you can touch his hand

Yet, so far to feel his heart?

Have you ever lived in pretense

Quietly loving without any condition?

A feeling of love that's unknown

Hiding it, not knowing for how long.

Have you ever fallen deeply

Loving the person unconditionally?

So afraid to say what you feel

Acting normal, keeping things still.

Have you ever been hurt unintentionally

But put on a smile, pretended to be happy?

Deep inside you're in pain and suffering

But outside you're jolly and laughing.

Why does holding his hand feel so right?

Your heart smiles every time he's at sight

Hearing his sweet voice makes your day

Hope you can hug her in a special way. :'(

true story goes....

From the very beginning, the girl's family objected strongly on her dating this guy. Saying that it has got to do with family background & that the girl will have to suffer for the rest of her life if she were to be with him.

Due to family's pressure, the couple quarrel very often. Though the girl love the guy deeply, but she always ask him: "How deep is your love for me?"

As the guy is not good with his words, this often causes the girl to be very upset. With that & the family's pressure, the girl often vents her anger on him. As for him, he only endures it in silence.

After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated & decided to further his studies in overseas. Before leaving, he proposed to the girl: "I'm not very good with words. But all I know is that I love you. If you allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of my life. As for your family, I'll try my best to talk them round. Will you marry me?"

The girl agreed, & with the guy's determination, the family finally gave in & agreed to let them get married. So before he leaves, they got engaged.

The girl went out to the working society, whereas the guy was overseas, continuing his studies. They sent their love through emails & phone calls. Though it's hard, but both never thought of giving up.

One day, while the girl was on her way to work, she was knocked down by a car that lost control. When she woke up, she saw her parents beside her bed. She realized that she was badly injured. Seeing her mum crying, she wanted to comfort her. But she realized that all that could come out of her mouth was just a sigh. She has lost her voice.

The doctor says that the impact on her brain has caused her to lose her voice. Listening to her parents' comfort, but with nothing coming out from her, she broke down.

During the stay in hospital, besides silence cry, it's still just silence cry that companied her. Upon reaching home, everything seems to be the same. Except for the ringing tone of the phone. Which pierced into her heart every time it rang. She does not wish to let the guy know. & not wanting to be a burden to him, she wrote a letter to him saying that she does not wish to wait any longer.

With that, she sent the ring back to him. In return, the guy sent millions & millions of reply, and countless of phone calls,.. all the girl could do, besides crying, is still crying.

The parents decided to move away, hoping that she could eventually forget everything & be happy. With a new environment, the girl learnt sign language & started a new life. Telling herself everyday that she must forget the guy. One day, her friend came & told her that he's back. She asked her friend not to let him know what happened to her. Since then, there wasn't anymore news of him.

A year has passed & her friend came with an envelope, containing an invitation card for the guy's wedding. The girl was shattered. When she opened the letter, she saw her name in it instead.

When she was about to ask her friend what's going on, she saw the guy standing in front of her. He used sign language telling her "I've spent a year's time to learn sign language. Just to let you know that I've not forgotten our promise. Let me have the chance to be your voice. I Love You. With that, he slipped the ring back into her finger. The girl finally smiled. 

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Do what makes you happy & be with who makes you smile!

Because you live, I live.

 

Every night you're not by me I fall asleep hoping I'll see you in my dreams. :) 

 

I wish I could figure you out... 

 

It’s only you. It’s all I need.

 

I wanted you bad, I'm so through with that.. cause honestly you turned out to be the best thing I never had. 

 

True love is silent, true love is blind.

 

you put your arms around me and I’m home.

 

I’m here until the very end, I’m not leaving you.

 

To YOU,

My biggest regret was believing we had something special. I walked the distance with you and stood by your side through all those storms. I was there to make you smile when you were down. I was there to catch you when you were falling. I was there to dry your tears. I was there when you needed a shoulder to cry on. I was there, but for you to just walk away when you were satisfied with you life… that’s just… … 

I hate how I grew so close to someone, and have gone through everything with, only to come back empty handed. Wanna know one of the first feeling in the world is? Being second to those you’ve always put first. but hey, … They say that Every Exit is an Entrance somewhere else. Maybe something better is to come. who knows? all we can do is move forward and expect better.

And today...

Thank god I found the good in goodbye...

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How Soon Can You Say "I Love You"?

I finally watched this movie last week (it's better to be late than never). And I really loved this movie. Yeah! This is indeed a TRUE STORY of every girls , (in high school) . NAM is every one of us who fell in love, tried everything to change ourselves just to make the one we love to like us back.

This is a story of Nam who like most of us went through an awkward years of teenage life, school works and pining for her first love. Like most of us, she fell for someone popular in school. Like most of us, she kept it as a secret. Like most of us, she tried her best to be noticed. Like most of us, she hoped and waited for him.

I really enjoyed watching this movie. FUN! Especially their TEACHER.

Sudarath Butrprom you bring the laughter in the movie a crazy little thing called love! 

 

I so love teacher Inn!!!! she's super funny! I like the scene when Nam almost fell off the stage, she was eating a really big chunk of something(hehe,dont know what that was), and she crushed her food. 

Wahhh I also like her acting and character so "ouuuuuuy" FINE! 

Another part is "understand??!!! understand???!!!!! okay...I love you. :) that part made me laugh. Wish I have someone like teacher Inn in my high school life.

But then...

I can even feel the Pain when NAM found out that PiN and P'SHONE were already girlfriend and boyfriend. That was HURT :(.

  I feel the PAIN, Nam. :(

I Like NAM’s friends because they were really supportive, and funny. 

I laughed and cried.

All i can say is “TRUE LOVE is worth waiting for”.

Honestly speaking.. this is one of the BEST romantic film I ever seen. It is WORTH watching.. ENJOY and STAY INLOVE :)

Anong Favorite lines mo?

A story about how true love waits for, hopes for and needs...

One More Chance

For anyone who has ever loved.

"Mahal na mahal kita, at ang sakit-sakit na."

how do you move on?
"Ui ano 'yan?"

"Bagong baby ni Popoy"

 

"She loved me at my worst. You had me at my best. And you chose to break my heart."


"Ten years from now, ganito parin kaya tayo?"
"Ten, eleven, twelve, thirteen, fourteen, forever and ever!"
"Promise?"
"Promise."

"I don't even know kung tama 'tong ginagawa ko, pero alam ko kailangan ko nang tapusin 'to."
"Basha, mahal mo pa ba 'ko?"
"Poy, I'm so sorry."

When love ends...

"Five years? Itatapon mo lang lahat?"
"Kailangan ko to, kailangan mo rin."
"Pero ikaw ang kailangan ko."

"If kaya pang ayusin pilitin. What if this is really what both of you need? Then just be strong. Magiging mahirap at masakit pero hopefully all the pain will be worth it."

how long should you hold on?

"Five seconds lng. Promise. Five seconds. One, two, three, please, five."

how soon should you let go?
"Not so nice to meet you."
"Malaki lang ang katawan mo pero 'di mo ko kayang patumbahin!"


Mga Pamatay na Linya sa "One More Chance"

I wanna stop wondering what if. I wanna know what is.

But you're asking for too much. Gusto mo mawala na'ko sa buhay mo.

I wish I could talk away all that makes you hurt. But I can't because you won't let me.

Mahal mo pa ba siya?
Ayokong nakikitang nasasaktan.
(She reaches out and softly closes his eyes.) Para kung masaktan man ako, hindi mo makikita...Mahal mo pa ba siya?
(He starts to sob) I'm sorry.

My personal favorite...
"Siguro kaya tayo iniiwanan ng mga mahal natin dahil may darating pang ibang mas magmamahal sa'tin - 'yung hindi tayo sasaktan at paasahin...'yung magtatama ng lahat ng mali sa buhay natin".

“Minsan, it’s better for 2 people to break up.. so they can grow up. It takes grown ups to make relationships work.”

Straight from the Heart Qoutations

Love Quotes Collections :

Don't say you love me unless you really mean it, because I might do something crazy like believe it.

Have you ever wondered which hurts the most: saying something and wishing you had not, or saying nothing, and wishing you had?

Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you was beyond my control.

The spaces between your fingers were created so that anther's could fill them in.

I'm trying really hard not to cry over you because every tear is just one more reminder that I don't know how to let you go. 

The worst feeling you'll ever feel is sitting next to the person who means the world to you knowing that you mean nothing to them.

If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it's yours. If it does not come back, it was never meant to be. 

I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you. 

*12 signs your falling in love*

12. You'll read his/her texts over and over again...
11. You'll walk really really slow while you're with him/her...
10. You'll pretend 2 be shy whenever you're with him/her...
9. While thinking bout him/her...your heart will beat faster and faster...
8. By listening to his/her voice...you'll smile for no reason.
7. While looking at him/her..you cant see the other people around you...you can only see that person...
6. You'll start listening to SLOW songs.
5. He/She becomes all you think about
4. You'll get high just by their smell...
3. You'll realize that you're always smiling to yourself when you think about them.. 2. You'll do anything for him/her...
1. While reading this, there was one person on your mind the whole time....

 If you truly love someone, then the only thing you want for them is to be happy....even if its not with you.

Loving someone doesn't need a reason. If you can explain why you love someone, its not called "Love"... its called "Like"  

If you love someone tell them... because hearts are often broken by words left unspoken.

A guy and a girl can be friends. But sooner or later one will fall for the other. Maybe too early, maybe too late, but maybe, just maybe forever. 

I was finally getting over you and actually believing I didn't need you. I was finally accepting you had another girl. Then you smiled at me and ruined it all.

You make me smile for no reason whatsoever, you make me laugh at the unfunny things, but most of all, you make me love you when I shouldn't be loving you.

Don't waste your time on someone who isn't willing to waste their time on you...

It is better for girl to sleep a hundred years and be kissed and awakened by the right prince than to stay awake and be kissed a hundred times by the wrong frog.

Torn between two. Who would you chose? The one that you love...or the one that loves you?

  

Smile! Tomorrow could be a lot worse!

 I just want to smile again

Being happy doesn't mean you're perfect. It just means you've decided to look beyond the imperfections.

1. Falling in love.
2. Laughing so hard your face hurts.
3. A hot shower.
4. No lines at the supermarket.
5. A special glance.
6. Getting mail.
7. Taking a drive on a pretty road.
8. Hearing your favorite song on the radio.
9. Lying in bed listening to the rain outside.
11. Chocolate milkshake ... (or vanilla ... or strawberry!)
12. A bubble bath.
13. Giggling.
14. A good conversation.
15. The beach
17. Laughing at yourself.
18. Eye contact with a hot member of the opposite sex.
19. Midnight phone calls that last for hours.
21. Laughing for absolutely no reason at all.
22. Having someone tell you that you're beautiful/good looking.
23. Laughing at an inside joke.
24. Friends.
25. Accidentally overhearing someone say something nice about you.
26. Waking up and realizing you still have a few hours left to sleep.
27. Your first kiss (either the very first or with a new partner).
28. Making new friends or spending time with old ones.
29. Playing with a new puppy.
30. Having someone play with your hair.
31. Sweet dreams.
32. Hot chocolate.
33. Road trips with friends.
34. Swinging on swings.
35. Making eye contact with a cute stranger.
36. Making chocolate chip cookies (and eating them...!).
37. Having your friends send you homemade cookies.
38. Holding hands with someone you care about.
39. Running into an old friend and realizing that some things (good or bad) never change.
40. Watching the expression on someone's face as they open a much-desired present from you.
41. Watching the sunrise.
42. Getting out of bed every morning and being grateful for another beautiful day.
43. Knowing that somebody misses you.

44. Getting a hug from someone you care about deeply.

45. Knowing you've done the right thing, no matter what other people think. 

Our days are happier when we give people a bit of our heart rather than a piece of our mind. :)